Monday, April 2, 2012

i have been busy for a while

But Pesach is here and we know many people have alot to release , and loads of pressure to look away from, so please write us on any subject you would like to read about.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

let me add (dark desires)

I have been asked by many if i thought there was something wrong with them having these unaccepted  desires and thoughts as well as fantasies
I wanted to make clear something
Like i said before There is nothing wrong with having them as well as i would be happy to listen to them and never judge you for having them as well as try to help if you want! 
feel free to email me at

It has been a long time

Since i posted last has been more than a few days 
every day i promised myself " ok today i am gonna do it"
but time went by
i have had tons and tons of emails pouring in  and in a way fortunately and in another way unfortunately  stuff that i was asked not to post since they were very private
but the nice part is that i was able to help peoples get stuff they needed to off their chest and when asked i tried to give fair and carefully thought out advice!
There were many who had stuff they wanted to get off their chest before Yom kippur thinking there was something wrong with them etc
i would like to make clear  a very important point!
even if you think of the region part there still is nothing wrong even though some might say you should try to get them out of your head but  everyone will agree u did not do anything wrong or bad by having those thoughts come into your head
I want to continue being a ear to people's stories and experiences as well as thoughts and desires  as well as try to  advise when asked to the best of my knowledge as well as be here for those who need a place to escape once in a while!
i don't think there is one answer to every one's issues  or rather to every one's thoughts  but if we try our best i am sure we can achieve allot!
please continue emailing me at
looking forward to hearing from you all
also i will try to get my focus cleared on a issue at a time if i can and will try to post that way
thanks and sorry for the delay

Sunday, October 2, 2011

A touch upon a few subjects

First i would like to start by saying i am sorry
i am sorry i haven't lived up to my own and other peoples expectations regarding this blog
it just has been taking much longer than expected to get into subjects
also all the emails and thoughts have to be sorted out i am hoping to get much more done one of these days but it has been very hectic and i cannot really make any money through this blog so i need to work for a living too and that can take time lol
I do tend to bring allot more ideas and get much deeper into the subjects that i have already mentioned as well as i am contemplating touching upon other controversial subjects that i have been asked about and i would love your thoughts on these  or if anyone has a opinion if i should even get into them!
Like i have had emails of frum people saying that being so Frum got them into lots of stuff like animal sex and incest and alike
i know it sounds very bad to some but i was thinking that after all this is a place everyone should feel they can unload off their shoulders and feel understood and  not judged
Your thoughts on the above please

New subject

I was asked about a few subjects but will ask the readers to please email me their thoughts of each one !
so i will start with one that was asked of me to write about
another subject i wanted to touch on i will try to a bit later so there is another interesting subject coming
For now i would love readers to write to me regarding their feelings and experiences and thoughts about being Frum and a lesbian or gay or bi sexual
thanks for sharing

After Rosh Hashana

Hey everyone
Hope you had a nice Rosh Hashana and Shabbos.
Sorry about the few days including the day before that i did not write it was extremely hectic over here but i am looking forward to fill in that void with interesting  ideas and/or experiences so come check in later for more
I am hoping it will still be today
Thanks and please feel free to share at
Take care

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

What do you guys think?

What is every ones thought of Rosh Hashana  coming and some people faking this whole game of BS excuse my language  but that is how it seems many times
All of a sudden becoming all Frum and Ehrlich
Or is it OK and acceptable before this day to be that way?
some people have been writing me that on these days they feel a bigger urge to do some wild stuff which some call sin and some call fun
what are your thoughts on this subject?